Feyenoord coach on how a chat with his daughter changed his life, memories of Arsenal and Manchester United and a lunch with Guardiola Feyenoord coach on how a chat with his daughter changed his life, memories of Arsenal and Manchester United and a lunch with Guardiola 2001-04 Makes a senior Feyenoord breakthrough at 17, wins the Uefa Cup, but falls out with manager Bert van Marwijk over his attitude.  2004 Joins Arsenal for £2.75m, half Feyenoord’s original asking price. Arsène Wenger explains