Dear Coleen I’m a woman in my 30s, recently single and frustrated with myself and my life. It’s the start of another year and I’ve done none of the things I promised myself last January I’d do. I vowed to get out of my dead-end job, but I’ve applied for nothing (always found an excuse not to), I wanted to get fit and healthy (failed) and I wanted to avoid useless guys (who I seem fatally attracted to!). Why do I keep repeating the same mistakes? And why can’t I get myself out of this rut I’ve