West Wilson is finally speaking out on the "Summer House" drama he and Amanda Batula   started by announcing their relationship last month ... and clearing up the timeline. The reality TV star appeared on the "Show Me Something" podcast Monday and said he and Amanda got together when everyone was single -- meaning he was no longer with Ciara Miller , and Amanda and Kyle Cooke had called off their marriage. He also said he and Amanda realized things were "maybe a little bit serious" between them