This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Christine Romeo , mother of "Love on the Spectrum" star Abbey Romeo . It has been edited for length and clarity. Sometimes I look at pictures of my daughter Abbey when she was 3 or 4. She was just so, so cute. But I think — was I present for that? Did I enjoy that time, or was I too obsessed with therapies and my worries about her future? It's normal for anyone, especially parents, to fret about the future, but for parents of kids with