Going behind your spouse’s back is a form of betrayal, regardless of how significant the matter is. It can cause cracks in the relationship that may destroy its foundation to irreparability.  A man seemingly didn’t think things through when he went against his wife and their agreed-upon name for their newborn son . He did it without her knowing and then put himself in deeper trouble by lying about it when caught.  The woman is now planning to file for divorce , but she is also seeking answers