Ever been dumped for being “too good”? It sounds like a compliment and lands like emotional maturity, but for many daters, it’s become the neatest way to end things without saying why. The phrase “you’re too good for me” is fast being called out across TikTok and dating forums as modern dating’s most insidious cliche – the updated “it’s not you, it’s me” that shuts conversations down. Content creator Constance Lee Wen Mei, known as  @milkbredi  online, thought a late-night “where is this going?”