Dear For Love & Money, I'm 25 years old and live in the Netherlands. I spent 15 years trying to leave my home country for a better future and move to Europe. I thought I would be better off here, have a higher standard of living, and be able to go on holiday. I worked and saved up whatever I could to make my dream come true. I made it to Europe 1½ years ago, and I'm working in tech sales , an industry that pays well even in a junior position; I make 67,000 Euros a year, but after rent, food,