Who cares about the merger when YouTube just became the largest media company in the world? Good news: The new normal is here. Two things happened Monday that say everything about where the entertainment industry stands right now. First: YouTube surpassed Disney to become the world’s largest media company. Second: Ted Hope — the producer behind films like “The Ice Storm,” “In the Bedroom,” and “Martha Marcy May Marlene” — published a post on what it feels like to still have the work in you but