Jennifer Barnhill is a columnist for Military.com writing about military families. When Angela Neal's husband found out that he was going to be able to pursue his Ph.D. as part of his next duty assignment, their family was excited. It seemed like the perfect time for Angela to lean into her career and get her Ph.D. too. So they both applied to the same "military friendly" school. Her husband was accepted and was even offered a scholarship because of his military service. She wasn't. "As one of