A Californian could not celebrate her daughter's bat mitzvah in Israel, a New York Israeli is not going to share Passover with her parents in Jerusalem, and a Texan made it home to be with family for the holiday. They are all victims of the abrupt cancellations of flights, the collateral damage of a war that America and Israel are fighting against a common enemy.Lily Feinstein was still catching her breath from an exhausting scramble through Egypt and Greece when she finally stepped up to the