"The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" star Taylor Frankie Paul is stepping in as the next 'Bachelorette' ... and a sex expert says she shouldn’t skip the "Fantasy Suites" -- but instead use the private time to her advantage. TFP's debut on this season of ''The Bachelorette'' is on the horizon, and the biggest discussion has been how she will approach the overnight-date rooms, due to her Mormon faith ... but, sex expert Shan Boodram tells us Taylor shouldn't steer clear of the intimate time.