Dear Coleen I’m a widower aged 60 and recently my only daughter introduced me to the man she’s seeing. I was, quite frankly, devastated to find he’s only four years younger than I am. My daughter is 29, so the (almost) three-decade age gap seems shocking to me. Her previous boyfriend was only a year older than she is and they were together for eight years after meeting at university. She met her current partner through work and he’s divorced with two teenage kids. I feel this situation is a lot