Jennifer Lopez long ago established herself as a triple-threat performer. But “Kiss of the Spider Woman,” which hits theaters Friday, marks the first time she felt like the star of an old Hollywood musical like the ones she watched as a kid growing up in the Bronx. “It was like the stuff that dreams are made of,” Lopez told reporters in a virtual news conference Sunday. “I got to sing, I got to dance, I got to act. I got to play like a big Hollywood movie star.” In a tale retold several times