“The texts were distressing enough that I shielded the nurses and residents from them, and to this day, I’ve never shared their details with anyone." Early in my career as a pediatric emergency room doctor, a mother brought her young daughter into the ER. The mom had recently ended a romantic relationship with a man, and he subsequently sent her texts graphically detailing the sexual violence he planned to inflict on her 3-year-old daughter in retaliation. Understandably, this prompted concern