"There's all this talk online about how dating is cooked in SF , but I never really believed that, because there's way more guys than women," she tells me. "Shouldn't it be easy to find a boyfriend?" The answer was no. Tani, who is 21, tried Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge to no avail. San Franciscans were too locked in building the future to build futures with romantic partners; it was a city of situationships. Tani had a specific list of criteria — someone ambitious, someone loyal — but there was