Louis Theroux’s Netflix documentary has shown that ‘alpha’ influencers are obsessed with – and terrified by – gay men… which, for a breed whose sense of manhood is defined by and dependent on their own perceived attractiveness, is not a great look, says Gary Nunn W hy is the manosphere so obsessed with gay men? You might think it’d be the other way around. In the gay world , these “ultra-masculine” influencers – with their planet-sized egos, toxic views about women, and obsessions with wealth,