More people are sharing their experience of being divorced out of the blue. Psychologists tell the BBC why a spouse might initiate a sudden split – and what this tells us about modern relationships and marriage. Eve Simmons was in a romantic relationship for eight-and-a-half years and married for six months when her husband put a bowl of pasta on the table in front of her, with a side of "I'm not happy". It was completely out of the blue. A few days later, he told her he didn't want to try and