Certain topics - for instance, the need to stop driving or move to a long-term care facility - are painful for everyone concerned. However, they should be addressed promptly and frankly. Driving Whether someone should continue to drive can be a particularly tricky issue. Don't assume that anyone automatically should give up driving after a certain age, but your loved one's safety - as well as the safety of other drivers and pedestrians - must be considered. Don't ignore warning signs such as: