The year was 2015 and the summer was historic: The Supreme Court had just ruled that all 50 states were required to recognize the marriages of queer couples on the same terms and conditions as the marriages of heterosexual couples. I was 22; my partner, Liam, was 29. Our relationship was new and we wanted to impress each other, so we shared a liter of honey whiskey and danced through San Francisco. People had rainbows painted on their arms and purple glitter sprinkled on their cheeks. Laughter