“There’s really nothing scarier for a parent than having the government come to your door, forcibly take your kid from you, not be sure where they’re going, not be sure when you’re going to see them again,” Max Selver told Gothamist. Selver, the lawyer representing Meredith Trainor in a federal lawsuit filed last week against the city’s Administration for Children’s Services for removing her 11-month-old daughter from her custody, might want to rethink that statement. After all, many parents