M ore people are drinking less alcohol—and sometimes, their friends take that personally. People who have ditched booze describe being hammered with questions about why they’re staying sober, treated like they’re sucking all the fun out of the room, or, if they’re women, inevitably asked if they’re pregnant. Being prepared with a handful of comebacks when you’re encouraged to drink—or asked why you're abstaining—can help you stick to your goals and diffuse any tension. Here, experts and sober