I've attempted to move abroad several times, even acquiring visas, but I always ended up back in New York. When I decided to have a baby on my own, I put that dream aside. I figured that if I couldn't do it as a single 30-something, it didn't seem feasible as a single mom . So, I was as surprised as anyone when, three months after having my daughter, I booked a flight to Berlin — and haven't returned. The first month of my daughter's life was a blur. I was exhausted and happy; having her felt