No matter how much dough you’ve got, everyone hates feeling like they’ve been nickel-and-dimed — the very rich, most of all. Maddeningly, most resorts haven’t noticed. A luxury stay should feel smooth as butter. Signing a chit every time you sneeze isn’t that. It makes you pause and reconsider that second bottle of Chablis by the pool, that third massage, that sunset cruise. Let’s not pretend it doesn’t. “It makes you question doing what you want to do,” said Henley Vazquez, co-founder of the