I smiled at the Facebook memory that popped up in my feed. It was from one year ago, showing pictures of our family celebrating my daughter's Senior Night. In the caption, I wrote about my bittersweet emotions and shared her decision to attend her dream school 2,000 miles away. I caught my breath reading it. What I had shared so confidently then no longer matched her reality. She had been so excited when she decided to attend this college , but in the spring of her senior year — after we'd