We've all looked at our bank account and wondered why we don't have as much money as we thought we did, and suddenly, the bills, shopping and socialising begin to add up. For many of us, our relationship with money is strained and dealing with financial matters leaves us feeling overwhelmed or stressed . If you're struggling to get on top of your finances, here are four ways to help you manage your money better. Sitting down and thinking about what actually drives you to spend money can help