I love my fiancée so much that I proposed to her twice. It wasn't because I didn't believe my lover — who is admittedly far out of my league — the first time she said yes, nor was it my pesky perfectionism rearing its demanding head because not every detail went according to plan. Rather, certain aspects of our engagement didn't quite meet our expectations. There are a lot of things my fiancée and I fondly reflect on when we talk about the day we got engaged — the location in her hometown, New