NEW YORK The brightest stars in Hollywood , music, sports and fashion hit the red carpet on May 5 for the Met Gala , the extravagant Manhattan fundraiser that this year spotlights the subversive style of Black dandyism . The blockbuster night's theme explores the sharply tailored dandy aesthetic and its rich, complicated history. It also celebrates the opening of a corresponding exhibit at the Metropolitan Museum of Art's Costume Institute. But for the fashionistas, the Met Gala — always the