“It was right after college. I was experimenting,” he mumbled, twisting in his seat. “No big deal.” “You made a sex tape?!” Susannah turned to her husband, Ron, mouth agape. He looked down, his cheeks reddening. “It was right after college. I was experimenting,” he mumbled, twisting in his seat. “No big deal.” As a couples therapist, I am always looking for how to mend the frayed edges of a relationship, but Susannah and Ron were different: They had come to my office to end their marriage. I