Dear Coleen I’m a 53-year-old single man and I’ve fallen for one of my colleagues, who’s 38. She’s also single after a painful split from her husband, who’d been having an affair. Her divorce came through in January, which she told me she was relieved about, but their five-year-old daughter is struggling apparently, so things are still challenging. In the past we’ve been out for a drink after work with colleagues, as well as a couple of times on our own. We get on very well and I’m also