No One Knew I Was Trans In College. Then I Joined A Fraternity — And It Taught Me How To Be A Man.

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My transgender tale is as old as time, opening with the devastation brought by puberty upon turning 11, as my mother gleefully delivered the horrifying news that I was finally “becoming a woman.” I started going to bed every night with crippling anxiety that I was slowly turning into something I couldn’t fathom myself as, and one day I would wake up as someone I couldn’t recognize. The disconnect between my body and self-image begot disbelief, then disappointment, which then transformed into