Learning to say no helps them resist impulsiveness and builds reflection into the decision-making process Sharing the load is a column about parenting children of all ages Learning to say no helps them resist impulsiveness and builds reflection into the decision-making process Sharing the load is a column about parenting children of all ages O ne of the most frustrating aspects of parenting is having to force your kids to do something they will undoubtedly enjoy. The effort required to get them