The ‘Friends’ star is an example of how successful women are judged, scrutinised and pigeonholed for not fitting into the mould society has created for them, says Olivia Petter The best of Voices delivered to your inbox every week - from controversial columns to expert analysis Sign up for our free weekly Voices newsletter for expert opinion and columns Sign up to our free weekly Voices newsletter Email * SIGN UP I would like to be emailed about offers, events and updates from The Independent.