I never expected that grief would be the thing that made a new place feel like home. As a military couple, my husband, Dane, and I have learned how to leave one place and arrive somewhere new with optimism. You get really good at starting over—new streets, routines and faces, figuring out your new grocery store and hair salon—all things that impact your everyday life in both big and little ways. But our most recent move felt different from the start, because we arrived carrying something