Having a family member refuse to attend your wedding can be a big blow. Your wedding day should primarily be about you and your partner . The bride and groom should be able to celebrate their big day however they see fit, but sometimes that might mean clashing with guests who may be expecting something different to the plans they've got in mind. While no one can force you to have a wedding that suits them, you also can't force them to attend, so when conflicts arise you need to think about