“Mr. Nepola wanted to be Alexia’s husband, not her storyline,” the defamation complaint, filed Tuesday in Florida, reads Todd Nepola, the ex-husband of “The Real Housewives of Miami” star Alexia Nepola, sued Bravo for $11 million on Tuesday for defamation, citing “manufactured drama” of his “financial distress.” In the lawsuit, filed in the southern district court of Florida against defendants Bravo Media, NBCUniversal Media and Purveyors of Pop Productions, Nepola claimed the companies used