A father’s refusal to financially help his struggling ex-wife has triggered a growing rift with his children, raising questions about responsibility, divorce and how adult conflicts continue to affect families years later. Reddit user MysteriousEmu1106 said he divorced his ex-wife five years ago after discovering she had secretly saved about $50,000 while he worked up to 80 hours a week believing they were struggling. He described the split as “messy,” citing undisclosed spending and credit