My husband and I celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary in March, and I can't believe how fast it's gone. Thirty years sounds like a lifetime, and in many ways it is. We've raised two kids , built careers, navigated illness, experienced loss, and grown through more life stages than I could have imagined when we first started out. Looking back, I've realized that a long-lasting marriage doesn't just teach you how to stay together. It teaches you how to live. Over three decades, the lessons