On July 21, 1994 – just three months after Kurt Cobain ‘s suicide – a photo of Courtney Love kissing. Lemonheads frontman Evan Dando in a hotel room bed ran in the New York Post and quickly spread across the globe. “Merry widow Courtney Love was recently photographed sharing a passionate kiss with singer Evan Dando of the Lemonheads ,” read a report that week in the National Enquirer . “As Courtney kissed Dando, she was clutching a teddy bear [filled] with Kurt’s ashes.” The provocative image