“I wish someone had told me that good sex wasn’t all about me and my penis.” As a young guy, wellness coach Jackson Hightower was always in a hurry ― even when it came to sex. Now 42, he’s learned that slowing down and really savoring the experience of getting to know your partner is more than worth it. “Sex has gotten significantly better with age,” Hightower told HuffPost. “It lasts longer, there’s more time for connection, and more time to give her orgasms and pleasure.” With 20 years of