As coaching psychologist James Davis neared the big 5-0, he found himself burning out faster than candles on a birthday cake. “It was actually my wife, Claire, that noticed I was becoming more withdrawn, that I was struggling more than normal to focus, that I was lacking get-up-and-go,” Davis, who lives in the UK, told The Post. “I checked in with myself and actually I realized I felt low, a little apathetic, like life had gone a bit flat and that I was struggling for motivation and direction