If you’re giving oral sex to a partner with a penis, you probably are familiar with the dreaded gag reflex — and the terrible “oh God, am I about to puke in the most mortifying way possible?” intrusive thought that makes you lose your concentration and totally kills the mood at inopportune times. But what if I told you there was an easy, free and low-risk way to potentially shut off that anxiety and let you get back to the “job”? It’s not magic; it’s acupressure. I first found out about this