Dear Coleen My husband never wants to have sex and it’s been so long since we last did it, I can’t even remember it. Intimacy started to go downhill after my difficult pregnancy with our youngest, then a traumatic birth. We didn’t have sex because of all the health issues and then coping with a newborn, but then it just carried on. He will literally do anything to avoid sex with me – he’ll go out with his mates, stay at work late or watch rubbish on TV until I’m asleep. The other night I lost