As grandparents , you want all of your relatives to feel happy, loved and connected in your company. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always happen. Sometimes, unintentional or even well-meaning comments from grandma and grandpa can “create an environment where grandkids feel uncomfortable or insecure,” Ann-Louise Lockhart , a pediatric psychologist and president of A New Day Pediatric Psychology in San Antonio, told HuffPost. That’s why it’s important to be more mindful about how we communicate