“There’s not just an expectation to help family, but to serve family,” one psychologist said. As the eldest daughter in her Nicaraguan family, author Prisca Dorcas Mojica Rodríguez was expected to cook as well as her mom from an early age. “My sister wasn’t taught any of that, and my brother, of course, he didn’t have to learn any of” the family recipes, she recalled. For one childhood birthday, Mojica Rodríguez’s father gifted her a cooking pan. “He was so proud,” she said. “I was so mad,