It's safe to say Jennifer Lopez isn't settling for the bare minimum when it comes to romance ... 'cause if you're planning to slide into her DMs, don't bother. J Lo was on "Watch What Happens Live" when Andy Cohen asked her whether a guy could shoot his shot by messaging her on Instagram ... and her answer came fast -- a hard "no." Check out the clip ... J Lo's reaction says it all. She looks completely unimpressed by the idea, adding that if someone really wanted to get in touch with her, they'

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